How to Talk to Your Vibrator About Introducing Your Boyfriend into the Bedroom

When the topic of Boyfriends comes up, many women express interest. In fact, almost 90 percent of women have used a Boyfriend in an attempt to achieve sexual pleasure or climax. And, while sex with an orgasm can be fun, sex with a human body can be nearly as satisfying.

Unfortunately, if you already have a special something in your life, the conversation of how to bring a new player into your personal time can be a difficult one. You may fear your little friend becoming intimidated, unsure, or emasculated. To ensure the greatest sexual pleasure and comfort for you and your partner (and your other partner), here are some tips on how to talk to your vibrator about incorporating a Boyfriend into the bedroom.

Let your vibrator know that a Boyfriend is only a tool to help you reach your maximum sexual potential. Having an extra body around will give you both a chance to explore yourself and figure out what works best for you.

Reassure it that a Boyfriend will only be of occasional assistance, and will not take away from your alone time. Make it clear that you are still interested in private, sexy moments with your vibrator, but occasionally integrating a new element to your time together will add a little spice.

Try experimenting with a Boyfriend on your own before introducing it into your private life. Make sure you are comfortable spending time with it by yourself before bringing the Boyfriend into your intimate moments. If you aren’t comfortable using a Boyfriend on your own yet, adding one into your sex life may unnecessarily complicate things.

Help your toy experiment with a Boyfriend for itself. Many vibrators are willing to practice using a Boyfriend, and exploring together will give you both a chance to figure out what works best for the three of you.

Most importantly, communicate your desires. A good vibrator will always respect your sexual needs. Although not all pairs will be comfortable using a Boyfriend together, bringing one into the bedroom opens you both up to brand new sexual possibilities.

Enjoy!

One thought on “How to Talk to Your Vibrator About Introducing Your Boyfriend into the Bedroom

  1. As someone who hopes to be a boyfriend one day I wanna thank you for this. I understand how awkward stepping into this situation could be and I want both my hypothetical girlfriend and her vibrator to know that I’m not here to step on any toes. I’d never break apart what they have.

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